Cherie Bendig

1978 - 2006
LocationBrighouse, Leeds
Age28 years
Date of Birth1978
Date of Death2/2006
Visitors4,428 since 10/02/2006
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Cherie Bendig lost her life on Friday the 6th of January 2006. Neighbours found the young mother in her home and raised the alarm, but paramedics failed to resuscitate her. Her family and friends take comfort knowing she will now be with her Parents, and also with her brother, Richard who passed away in 1997.

"I have known Cherie for quite some time. She had her problems and had been at rock-bottom," said Ms Edwards. "It's a sad end to a sad story." Andrea Edwards, Friend.



She leaves behind her Grandmother, Pauline Kenny.

"I just loved her and adored her. She had a lot of friends but life was cruel to her.", Pauline Kenny, Grandmother

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Tributes

Love you always and forever xxx

An Angel sings a melody,
The riff restful on her lips,
The words acquaint a story,
Of a delicate sole eclipse.

That vivid pastel shaddow,
Unravelled in my dreams,
The delusion of a fairytale,
Was undoubted, so it seemed.

You now reside in heaven,
A place of calm and tranquility,
Free from affliction and hardship,
There you endure no pity.

The tenderness i feel for you,
My heart will never retreat,
The truth of your eternal rest,
I will somehow have to beat.

You will always belong in my heart,
And even though to heaven you flew,
I know you will always look down on me,
And i will always look up to you.

Love you Always and Forever,
Your Baby,
XxXxXxXxXxXxXxX

Lauren Horner (Daughter)

July 28, 2010

To the "unknown!" person what an idiot!
i Didnt know cherie but like other people say she has a daughter who sounds to be an absolute star!!!! xxxx

Sarah Lee And Ronnie

April 3, 2010

mum
i miss you and think about you every day.
ignore that person who wrote that message, its only words and they obvioustly didn't know the real you. You did care for me and you did love me and nobody has the right to say otherwise. Deep down you was a good person. My gran told me that before i was born you wanted to be a nurse, you wanted to care for people and help people. Doesnt that show what a good person you was. when i got taken off of you, i know how hard you tried to get me back and that noboby noticed, people had already judged you and didnt give the time or effort to see the warm, kind ,loving side of you. i was too young to understand and shout out to people to just listen to you and help you.
But at least you are at peace now and you can look down on me and smile and i can smile back because i know you are safe now and you are happy with the rest of the family.
i love you mum,
your sweet sugar dumpling
lauren.
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Lauren Horner (Daughter)

December 30, 2009

my friend

hey you remmeber the school days when we use to sit and chat at smithhouse shop i was so sad to hear youd passed away.we had some fun didnt we girl unlike you hun i managed to break free from the dark life. but at least now hun your at peace with your family no more suffering miss ya
love leanne

Eileen Carey

August 18, 2009

RIP

Life deals a rubbish hand sometimes for some people and I know this through personal situations. People should not judge anyone by what life they lead because we do not always know the reasonings behind it.
Cherie was still someones daughter, someones mother, and someones friend and most of all she was someone!
I hope you rest in peace Cherie and if you can find my uncle David and give him a hug from me, he can identify with you angel xxx

Jane Bamford (just passing by)

July 25, 2008

sorry

used to bump into often on my way home from work in halifax - always made time to sit down with you and share my kfc - lol have a chat - you experienced a lot of sadness and pain in your life - so sorry u became a fallen soldier - hope the pain has left your side now that your up there -rest in peace lady . all my love evex

Caroline (Friend)

June 16, 2008

so sorry cherie x

hey cherie you dont no me but i was reading your page and came across the crap someone decided to leave on here and i am so sorry there is disrespecfull people like that in the world, i no your life must have been hard my brother is on herion you may no him (eddie mclear) and his life is awful i wouldnt wish a life like his on anyone i am so sorry that you had to go through this alone at least my brother has his family around him. you shouldnt have had to die the way you did and my heart goes out to you and your daughter who i am sure is beautiful and will love her mum no matter who you were or what you had done, she will be proud of you.




to the person that wrote that crap,
you realy dnt no what it feels like to loose someone you love and how it affects your life. cherie may have been down on her luck and took to drugs but that didnt make her a bad person she had a heart and soul just like the rest of us and could feel the same too.
so i hope you dont loose the person you love the most in the world and find your self turning to drugs just to block out the pain for a few hours so you can eat and get some sleep, then come across some people like your self that will give you an even harder time than you were already having.
THINK ABOUT IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Cathrine McLear (passerby)

June 15, 2008

Dear Cherie, I remember reading about your tragic life if the paper. My heart went out to you and your family. I hope you have met my daughter,Sarah, she died 7 years ago in the same circumstances as you, she would be 31 now, and also left a young daughter who I am bringing up. She is now 11 and misses her mum every day. I hope you have both found peace because a life on drugs is worse then hell itself and I hope the dealers rot there. I have read the message from a human being who has no idea about life, death or the pain it causes and I hope that person regrets what he/she wrote and also rots is hell. You are now at peace and can watch over your family who I am sure will miss you everyday x

Rosie

April 25, 2008

RIP

hey cherie sorry i av not been on in ages but i still think about u i hope ur happy if ur looking down u will see what a lovely daughter u av and i think she will always be a credit to you is ur grannie looking after u bet she gives u a right ear bashing lol will go now sweet dreams x x

Terri (Friend)

February 24, 2008

cherie

Hi Cherie, just a little note to say, you will be thought of this christmas and i bet your so proud of your daughter, what a lovely young lady she has turned into.
I hope your at peace and with your family, say hi to richard from me, he is still thought of and sadly missed by everyone as you are.

TO THE PERSON WITH NO HEART...
It doesnt matter what happened or what didnt happen at the end of the day Cherie was someones daughter grand daughter and most of all someones mother, life, for some people takes nasty turns and some people just dont know how to handle the bad things that happen, we all make mistakes and we are all human and deserve a chance, this woman had a hard time in life and a hard time in death surely she deserves a bit of peace now she has gone!
Think about what you have said and i hope you can sleep well!

Cherie rest in peace xxxx

Sammi Kendall (GTS Friend)

December 22, 2007
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